beducated
If there’s one thing you should spend your money on it’s a subscription to Beducated. I’ve looked at a ton of different resources and this one is by far the most comprehensive (your wife is sure to find something she’s interested in), and the most approachable. I can’t say enough good things about it. Also, you can try it completely free for a full day before you commit to paying anything.
Books my wife loves
- Happy Place by Emily Henry – Praised by many, this standalone novel follows a couple as they work through the complexities of a relationship and breakup, discovering along the way what finding your “happy place” really means.
- Court of Thorns and Roses Series by Sarah J Maas – Feyre is a huntress. She thinks nothing of slaughtering a wolf to capture its prey. But, like all mortals, she fears what lingers beyond the forest.
- Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski – An essential exploration of why and how women’s sexuality works—based on groundbreaking research and brain science—that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.
- Vanilla to Vixen by Mrs N – This is a true-life story of a woman’s journey, from sexual innocence to carnal debauchery, but this erotic recital covers a lot more than her mere physical acts of lust.
Movies we love
- Basic Instinct – “A police detective plays a seductive game of cat and mouse with a manipulative novelist who is the prime suspect in her rock star boyfriend’s murder.”
- Body Heat – Shyster lawyer Ned Racine (William Hurt) begins a passionate affair with Matty Walker (Kathleen Turner), wife of a wealthy Florida businessman (Richard Crenna). With the help of one of his criminal clients, bomb maker Teddy Lewis (Mickey Rourke), Ned hatches a scheme to kill Matty’s husband so that they can run away together with his money. But complications build upon double-crosses, launching the hapless lawyer into a situation far more treacherous than he imagined.
- Eyes Wide Shut – After Dr. Bill Hartford’s (Tom Cruise) wife, Alice (Nicole Kidman), admits to having sexual fantasies about a man she met, Bill becomes obsessed with having a sexual encounter. He discovers an underground sexual group and attends one of their meetings — and quickly discovers that he is in over his head.
- Wild Things – When teen debutante Kelly (Denise Richards) fails to attract the attention of her hunky guidance counselor, Sam (Matt Dillon), she cries rape, igniting a scandal that results in his arrest. Sam appeals to Ken (Bill Murray), a hack personal-injury lawyer who has never handled a case that couldn’t be helped by a prop neck brace. Soon, a second victim, Suzie (Neve Campbell), comes forward, and Detective Duquette (Kevin Bacon) discovers that the unfolding case is far from what it seems.
- The Hand Maiden – With help from an orphaned pickpocket (Kim Tae-ri), a Korean con man (Ha Jung-woo) devises an elaborate plot to seduce and bilk a Japanese woman (Kim Min-hee) out of her inheritance.
other books I find helpful
- Models by Mark Manson – Models is the first book ever written on seduction as an emotional process rather than a logical one, a process of connecting with women rather than impressing them. It’s the most mature and honest guide on how a man can attract women without faking behavior, without lying and without emulating others. A game-changer.
Sources
Active Open Minded Thinking and It’s Measurement